Competition

A random thought after watching a competition/game where the winner was very happy and the loser was very sad.

We all know the winner was basically ecstatic, feeling very proud and having a great sense of achievement. Happy ending for the winner. good.

But, the sad part of the story is the loser, who was actually shedding tears of sadness, feeling deeply disappointed and blaming self for the incompetence.

Well, i know fair competition motivates and improves people's performance. but is it true that one way of making humans feeling happy is to prove/feel themselves more superior than the others? I think it's true and it doesn't sound like a good thing. To me, it's like building happiness over others' sadness.

You dont think it's true? Then tell me, do you feel good when you are excel in something compared to the others? You might say, you are feeling happy because u are good in it, not because you are better than the rest. Well, if you are not better than others, then you wouldnt be good in it, and you wouldn't really feel happy over it. Think about this, do you feel happy that you have the capability to eat and breathe? no, you don't. Coz everyone else can. And if you really do feel happy about being capable to eat and breathe, it's because you compared yourself to people who cant.. and that's why you are feeling happy over it. And again, back to my point, you are happy because you are better than the rest.

年年岁岁花相似 岁岁年年人不同

又一年了。

觉得大家都变了。

距离也远了。

也变得不在乎了。



怎么觉得周围的人戴的面具更厚了呢？

心里多少有那么点感叹。

物是人非呀~



自己也变了，

也不敢肯定自己是往好的方向转变呢，

还是往更坏的方向转变？

也许好坏参半吧。

只能说自己稍微地成长了，

也比较懂得保护自己。



还记得小时候我们常说

他是好人，他是坏人...

现在却觉得这世界上坏人并不多，

但是...

好人更少！

大多数人都亦好亦坏

只要无利益冲突，大家都是好人；

反之要是有利益冲突，...

大家心知肚明吧。



有时自己想做一个好人，

但是， 做好人...

苦啊！


无法否认，

自己的确变了。

岁岁年年人不同，

很好奇

明年的你我又会如何不同呢？